Now that the dust has settled
and the bins holding the contents of another college apartment are stacked
throughout our house on this side of the state, I’ll say my official farewell
to Pullman, WA. On May 4, 2013, our daughter Sarah graduated Summa Cum Laude (GPA
over 3.9) from Washington State University with a Bachelor of Music in Piano
Performance.
Sarah Stark, WSU Class of 2013 |
Sarah followed in her brother’s
footsteps and became a cougar in August 2009. Even though my husband John has
been a professor at WSU since 1990, I had never visited the main campus in
Pullman until we took Johnny, our oldest, to WSU while shopping for a college
in the spring of 2006.
For seven years our two cougars
migrated back and forth across the state, spending most of their time in the
small college town named Pullman. They both put in a lot of class and practice hours
in one particular campus building, Kimbrough, the music building.
Over the years I got in the WSU
rhythm as well: buying books before fall semester, helping them pack up to
return to college, sending them Puyallup fair scones, football season, dad’s
weekend, finals, winter break, buying books for spring semester, spring break,
mom’s weekend, finals and moving their stuff from dorms to apartments and back
home.
Johnny and Sarah both knew that
if I came to visit, it was mandatory that I get a milk shake at Ferdinand’s. If
we didn’t get to Ferdinand’s while it was open, they figured out where else I
could get my fix of the famous WSU creamery’s ice cream and a tin of Cougar
Gold cheddar cheese.
We had our favorite restaurants in Pullman: Tam’s or
McDonald’s for breakfast, Black Cypress, South Fork, or Fireside Grill for
dinner, and Rico’s for beer and popcorn.
While John met with his
colleagues, I’d take the kids to Wal-Mart or Safeway and stock them up with
groceries. Near Sarah’s apartment on College Hill, we knew where the best hunting
was for parking spaces.We were there when the new Cub opened and missed Dupus
Boomers when it closed.
Mom's weekend 2011 at Dupus Boomers restaurant. |
We had fun rolling some balls down the alley at Zeppos
when Johnny was taking bowling. I slept in Stephenson dormitory at freshman
orientation and one mom’s weekend, and we knew our best bet was to camp out in
the kids’ apartments because hotel rooms were scarce during mom’s weekends and
graduation.
Special thanks go to the WSU
Health center. They took care of Johnny when he broke his wrist, and got the
gravel out of Sarah’s palms when she fell one cold winter the day before her
piano juries. Both of my cougars managed to dodge the swine flu outbreak of
2009, but I knew that the health center was there if they did. More thanks go
out to the mechanics at Les Schwab who repaired Johnny’s Honda when his front
wheel and bearing fell off in his apartment parking lot, and to the reputable
shop that re-flashed the electrical system of Sarah’s Audi when her friend
jumped her battery the wrong way. Thank you also to AAA for towing these cars
for us—one time 72 miles from Othello to Ellensburg.
Although the scenery can be
beautiful, I will not miss the five and a half hour drive across 300 miles of
Washington, listening for reports on whether Snoqualmie pass was open or
passing on two-lane Highway 26. We knew where the speed traps were along the
way, and a short cut that bypassed Colfax. My heart always lifted when I
spotted the spud shack that farmer Orman Johnson spent $5000 on to have special
crimson siding cut to spell “Go Cougs”
in letters so large we could see it for miles. It meant we were about an hour
and a half out of Pullman.
Moving Sarah back home was a
piecemeal trek divided into three parts. On mom’s weekend in April John and I
drove over in his truck. I would drive her car back home. After enjoying some mom’s
weekend activities, we loaded the furniture that Sarah wasn’t passing on to
friends (my childhood dresser and desk, etc.) into the back of his pickup, and
crammed smaller things into the Audi.
Just past the halfway point of
Ellensburg, I noticed the road condition sign flashing.
I was following John and saw that a semi had blocked his view of the sign. I couldn’t figure her radio out so I called Sarah and told her to get online to check the pass, then call John with the results. He called me and said that Sarah found out that the pass was closed. We pulled off at the next exit and consulted, deciding to double back to E-burg and get a hotel room.
I was following John and saw that a semi had blocked his view of the sign. I couldn’t figure her radio out so I called Sarah and told her to get online to check the pass, then call John with the results. He called me and said that Sarah found out that the pass was closed. We pulled off at the next exit and consulted, deciding to double back to E-burg and get a hotel room.
We pulled into the Holiday Inn
Express, and hustled inside to the front desk where the phone wouldn’t stop
ringing. The check-in clerk asked if I’d mind if she took another call. I told
her only if she guaranteed us the next available room. She nodded agreement as
she answered the phone.
The next call was from a sports
team that needed eleven rooms because the pass was closed! We’d made it just
before she switched the “No Vacancy” sign on! Sarah said that as she checked
the pass conditions, they closed seven exits because of heavy snowfall and
multiple accidents including a semi.
Sarah Stark and Dr. Keri McCarthy |
Sarah with the class of 2013. |
John, Sarah, and Laura Stark ouside Martin Stadium, WSU. |
Johnny and Sarah spent their cougar cash eating lunch here. |
It didn’t take long for us to
realize that we wouldn’t be able to fit the rest of her apartment in our
vehicles. It was going to take yet another trip. We loaded as much as we could,
covered the full truck bed with a tarp and headed west. John would follow the
three of us home in the Camry the next day after meetings with his department.
Part three: John and I returned
two weekends later. Sarah couldn’t go because she was going to a wedding. Campus
was empty other than a few stragglers like us still moving, so it was easy to
park the truck close to her apartment.
I was confident that we could
fit the last of it in the truck. I stayed up late Friday night packing. I was
also confident that we’d be able to clean the apartment and leave by noon. That
night we slept on air mattresses on the floor. I hadn’t brought a sleeping bag
because I was confident that it would be too hot.
Well, it got down into the
forties that night and I had left the windows open, so I didn’t sleep well. We
almost couldn’t fit everything in the truck and called one of Sarah’s friends
who was staying in Pullman to ask if we could leave some things with her. But after
throwing even more away, and donating some more to a charity, it did all fit. I changed
my “confident” estimated departure time from noon to 2:00. We left the key to
Sarah’s apartment on top of the defrosted refrigerator at 5:00 and closed the
door to her Pullman apartment for the last time.
Sarah's WSU home for three years. |
John tightens the tarp before we leave. |
Rolling hills of the Palouse |
John hung a u-turn, carefully so
the over-the-top load wouldn’t shift, and went back to McDonald’s. I ran inside
and checked the hook on the back of the bathroom stall door. No purse. I
fast-walked to the booth we’d sat in. No purse. I went up to the counter and
explained the situation to the clean cut, young man waiting to take orders. Before
I could finish describing, “It’s turquoise leather . . .” he cut me off.
“Oh yeah. We’ve got it!” He ran into
the back and came out with my purse. He said that he’d spotted it when he went to
wipe the table we’d sat at.
I thanked him and told him I was
just so tired from moving my daughter. He nodded sympathetically. I walked back
to the truck patting my purse triumphantly. John, ever the New Yorker, urged me
to check the contents, but I already knew everything would be in it. After all,
we were in Pullman.
Washington State University, Pullman, Washington |
Laura Keolanui
Stark smiled when she got an email reminding her of freshman orientation at
WSU. She is helping Sarah sort through the bins to get ready to pursue a master’s
degree in Musicology at Northwestern University in Evanston, Illinois. Laura
can be reached at stark.laura.k@gmail.com.